When it’s always what you want and never what your partner wants, when you always want to make the decisions and you care less about your partner’s point of view, then that’s selfishness.
4. YOUR PARTNER HAS TO BEG YOU FOR YOU TO DO SOMETHING
When your partner has to constantly remind you or beg you to do something that you ought to do, it’s another sign of selfishness. A mistake is no longer a mistake when it happens too frequently. If you let your partner disturb or plead with you to keep a promise or perform your responsibilities, you’re a selfish partner.