#8. Be Chill About Rejection. Fingers crossed it doesn’t get to this point, but the reality is, rejection is a normal (and healthy) part of asking women out on dates. If she’s not into the idea of going out with you for whatever reason, you’re going to have to take it on the chin.
Don’t pester her or ask “Whyyyyyyy?” like a three-year-old who’s been told he can’t have a friend over or play with his toys. Flash her a smile, say something polite and low-key like “that’s fine, have a great night!” and walk away. Try not to take rejection too personally: it happens to everyone, and there’s a good chance it’s not about you. The more relaxed you are about dealing with it, the less it seems like a terrible, self-esteem-crushing fate when it does occur.
So, that’s how you ask a woman out. None of these steps are rocket science, but they will help the interaction to go as smoothly as possible and maximise your chances of getting a “yes”. Remember, it’s a numbers game, so don’t give up after your first rejection: the girl of your dreams might be the second, third or fourth one you ask!