3.) Take Her to a Safe and Private Place
If she is verbally shy then she will definitely scare to talk with friends and strangers. Taking her to a safe and private place is the best way to have a relationship with a shy girl. The conversation that takes place at restaurants, in quiet cafes or during parties can make a shy person shut down.
4.) Let Her Start the Conversation
A shy girl will always scare to confrontation. Don’t use harsh language. Once she is comfortable to open up to you then give her a chance to start the conversation. Let her talk about what she wants. If she doesn’t know how to start the conversation then talk to her about things she has already discussed. If you are going outside with her then let her choose the restaurant as it will increase her confidence level.